{"id":2727,"date":"2024-10-09T15:29:47","date_gmt":"2024-10-09T13:29:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.go-parallax.com\/?p=2727"},"modified":"2024-10-30T14:13:11","modified_gmt":"2024-10-30T13:13:11","slug":"9-doubts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.go-parallax.com\/en\/2024\/10\/09\/9-doubts\/","title":{"rendered":"9. Doubts"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4 id=\"ember5657\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__heading-3\">Ambiguity<\/h4>\n<p id=\"ember5658\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\">I\u2019m not sure I can get my thoughts straight on this topic because there\u2019s something ambiguous about \u2018doubt.\u2019 On one hand, it can be a good thing:<\/p>\n<p id=\"ember5659\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\"><em>You doubt whether something is true or not, so you explore the idea and find out it is (or it isn\u2019t).<\/em><\/p>\n<p id=\"ember5660\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\">On the other hand,<\/p>\n<p id=\"ember5661\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\"><em>you might doubt whether the plan you\u2019re working on will actually succeed, and that can stifle you.<\/em><\/p>\n<h4 id=\"ember5662\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__heading-3\">Doubts about what?<\/h4>\n<p id=\"ember5663\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\">As mentioned above, doubt can hinder progress, but it can also fuel it. It hinders you, for example, when you&#8217;re uncertain about taking action, even if you&#8217;re sure it will lead to a positive outcome. So there\u2019s certainty here, but there\u2019s also doubt!<\/p>\n<h4 id=\"ember5664\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__heading-3\">Get it straight!<\/h4>\n<p id=\"ember5665\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\"><em>(talking to myself) <\/em><\/p>\n<p id=\"ember5666\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\">Often, the ambiguity in doubt lies in what it\u2019s actually about. You see, you need to <em>differentiate<\/em>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Am I doubting my business plan, or am I doubting whether I can make it a reality?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Am I doubting whether my client will accept this proposal, or am I questioning its content?<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p id=\"ember5668\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\">In the first example, the business plan may be the greatest thing since sliced bread\u2014<em>but is it you<\/em>? In the second, the proposal might be the Holy Grail of proposals, yet you might sense that your client has <em>doubts about something else<\/em>.<\/p>\n<h4 id=\"ember5669\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__heading-3\">Now we\u2019re getting somewhere<\/h4>\n<p id=\"ember5670\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\">So now we know that if we want to &#8218;<em>remove all doubt<\/em>,&#8216; we need to ensure we&#8217;re addressing the right doubt. In the first example above, that means:<\/p>\n<p id=\"ember5671\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\"><em>Don\u2019t change the business plan! Be curious about what\u2019s holding you back and work on that (or find a suitable partner).<\/em><\/p>\n<p id=\"ember5672\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\">And in the second:<\/p>\n<p id=\"ember5673\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\"><em>Please don\u2019t change the Holy Grail! Investigate your hunch! (or find another client).<\/em><\/p>\n<h4 id=\"ember5674\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__heading-3\">Simplify!<\/h4>\n<p id=\"ember5675\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\">I wrote a piece about how <a class=\"app-aware-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/3-simplify-rob-van-der-laak-ppqse\/?trackingId=0SNGFUWx3ukQ8R08uXbxsA%3D%3D\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"noopener\" data-test-app-aware-link=\"\">simplifying things can make everything better<\/a>, it might also remove doubts.<\/p>\n<h4 id=\"ember5676\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__heading-3\">And,<\/h4>\n<p class=\"reader-text-block__code-block\"><em>Sometimes it&#8217;s best to ignore your doubts and just do what you need to do. It might even turn out to be fun!<\/em><\/p>\n<h4 id=\"ember5677\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__heading-3\">That&#8217;s all,<\/h4>\n<p id=\"ember5678\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\">RvdL<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ambiguity I\u2019m not sure I can get my thoughts straight on this topic because there\u2019s [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[61,70],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2727","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-decision-making","category-problem-solving"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.go-parallax.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2727","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.go-parallax.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.go-parallax.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.go-parallax.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.go-parallax.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2727"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.go-parallax.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2727\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2729,"href":"https:\/\/www.go-parallax.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2727\/revisions\/2729"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.go-parallax.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2727"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.go-parallax.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2727"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.go-parallax.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2727"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}